The coming together of a man and woman to begin a courtship or relationship which ultimately might lead to marriage can be a beautiful thing to behold.
However, certain circumstances can make the relationship go sour and break up sets in; which quickly cut short the main reason why it was started at first. When this happens, either both parties are heartbroken or one of the parties has moved on quickly leaving the other to nurse what is left behind.
The term ‘Break-up‘ has taken a new name among Netizens and it has spread quickly like wildfire. Break-ups are now tagged ‘Breakfast‘. It simply connotes that your heart has been served on a platter and broken.
Social media has continued to publicise those who have been served breakfast daily and further shown how most people deal with it.
It is however shocking to know that people least expected in the society have been “severed severe breakfast”. The case of a famous matchmaking and relationship coach is overwhelming.
Lara Kudayisi shared with Chude Jideonwo in an interview what her breakfast story was like. She disclosed that her ex-boyfriend served her breakfast after she succeeded in removing fifteen foetuses for him.
There is no good or bad way to be served breakfast; Kudayisi noted that she was served exactly seven days after the last foetus was removed.
As expected, the one who feels the heat the most goes into self-denial afterwards. Kudayisi affirmed this and also blamed the devil for what befell her. She further disclosed that she fasted for forty days and so visited her ex’s house every day over three months to rectify the breakfast.
In an earlier interview with Vanguard Newspaper, Kudayisi recalled how she started sharing her story on Facebook in 2012. She recounted how she was served breakfast fourteen times and how she conceived her daughter in her teens.
Fourteen breakfast is something to bemoan. Kudayisi said she started operation “Get Married” to prove her father wrong after he said no one would marry her after she had her daughter at 19.
Eventually, she dated every man that tells her he loves or wants to marry her. She closed her eyes to every red flag or sign.
“I took a lot of shit just to get married and I kept going from one relationship to another as a broken woman”.
“This was the same thing I took into my marriage and like you know it broke down because I was already emotionally dysfunctional.”
Well, just like Kudayisi almost everyone who has come of age has had the fair share of being served “breakfast”.
Celebrities like Burna Boy was served breakfast by his ex-girlfriend, Stefflon Don. This inspired one of his songs titled ‘Last Last’ Nollywood actress, Tonto Dikeh is a living testimony of a bad breakfast. Currently, actress, Nkechi Blessing Sunday and her ex, Opeyemi Falegan have been at war on social media over who served who breakfast.