Comedian and actor, Ayo Makun better known as AY has confirmed that his marriage to Mabel Makun has hit the rock.
In a lengthy post on his Instagram page, AY informed the public not to assume that being loud is strong, and being quiet is weak.
The father of two admitted that he has found himself doing some things that he isn’t proud of today and it is sad to see his friendship and marriage of 20 years slip off his hands. However, it’s another thing for the parties involved to understand how to appropriate the blame in a space that is designed for most women to always play the victim and win.
AY also admitted that neither he nor his wife are entirely innocent in the situation. He confessed to finding some amusement in how quickly false information about him spreads on blogs.
‘‘Many people believe that staying silent simply means that one is incapable of dealing with issues. Projecting a negative narrative against someone who is not struggling to defend himself doesn’t mean he is weak. Some of us are just logical enough to understand the difference between opinions, values, beliefs, and facts.
The personality and ability that I possess simply confirm that i have reached that stage in my life where I can not be entertaining the public with deep personal family issues. They just might be too much to handle concerning the individuals involved. Not even when I have a grown-up daughter who has access to social media. Her mental health needs to be protected from seeing things she can not be proud of online.
Yes! Without compromising my family, i have found myself doing some things that i am not proud of today. It is one thing to watch my friendship/ marriage of 20 years slip off my hands, but it’s another thing for the parties involved to understand how to appropriate the blames in a space that is designed for most women to always play the victims and win. I can tell you for free that no one is completely INNOCENT enough to cast stones.
Presently, I am loving the way that lies about me in all these blogs are traveling faster than the truth. But my painful truth will eventually beat away all the lies.”
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