Dates are usually an avenue for partners to know each other better, decide whether they are compatible or whether to carry on with the relationship and move on. There are persons who ended the relationship on the first due to boundaries that were not observed. To address this here are some common do’s and don’ts of dating:
Do’s:
Be yourself and be honest about your intentions and feelings. Don’t impersonate another character. Also show respect and kindness towards your date. Read also
Be a good listener and engage in meaningful conversations. While communicating don’t be rude or disrespectful to your date or others around you.
Dress appropriately for the occasion; no color riot. Make sure your makeup is properly made and matches your skin tone. Punctuality is also important, ensure you keep to time. Read also
Offer to pay or split the bill, depending on your comfort level and cultural norms. Follow up with a thank-you message after the date.
Don’ts:
Avoid talking excessively about yourself without showing interest in your date. Try to listen to your date’s opinion and interest.
Don’t use your phone excessively during the date; pressing of phone should be limited during the date as this might connote rudeness. Instead focus on connecting with your date.
Refrain from discussing past relationships or ex-partners. Whoever your ex was doesn’t matter to your date on the first meeting. Keep that for another day.
Don’t rush into physical intimacy if your date is not comfortable with it. Avoid being too pushy or clingy; give your date space if needed.
Remember, dating etiquette can vary depending on cultural and personal preferences, so it’s essential to be considerate and respectful of your date’s boundaries and comfort level.