Nigerian singer, Chidinma Ekile has penned an important message to her fans on the importance of limiting how they help people.
The hiphop turned Gospel singer disagreed with Afrobeats singer, Davido’s popular catchphrase ‘We Rise By Lifting Others’, as she noted how one can fall by lifting others.
Chidinma warned her fans to be cautious about how much they help others. She also advised them not to do too much and not let anyone guilt-trip or manipulate them into giving away money
“You can actually fall by lifting others, put a limit to how you help people. Don’t do too much, and never allow them guilt trip or manipulate you into getting money off you”.
See how Netizens reacted below
One The Real Beth wrote: “Don’t help leeches! Help people with potential!! They’ll see it as an investment. The entitled ones would always drain you”
One Ekeson Money wrote: “No be lie oo, gives don dey lack now”
One Adeolu Olatomide wrote: “Givers don dey lack. Before Dem use you, use your sense”
One Ladyque wrote: “Givers need to set limits because takers never get tired of taking”
One Its Pretty Oprah wrote: “Exactly, and when you fall those people won’t remember when you helped them, they will only remember the bad things you’ve done”
One Sossi Official wrote: “Takers will always take Dem no send your papa”
One Amy Shine wrote: “Some people will drain you till you have nothing left. RUN from people who bill too much. They will make you go from grace to grass”
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