Glamsquad reports that former singer turned clergyman, Apostle Okose Emmanuel who was known as Soul-E, dished out advice to ladies.
In a video making rounds, the former singer advised women not to marry into families where the mother or siblings (sisters) do not like them.
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According to him, if the mother and the sisters of a man like his partner, the relationship or marriage tendencies of working out is high.
He said,
”The worst mistake most women do is that they get involved with partners who the partner’s family, the mother in-law or sister in-law does not like you. You will keep facing battles, you will keep facing witchcraft. 90% of barreness in marriages today are sponsored by hatred from mother in-laws and sister in-laws.”
See vvideo below,
The video has since generated mixed reactions from Netizens.
@princemartin.oty: Not really true; everything depends on the man.
@captain_dike: All thiz people saying na lie…wait still you marry and experience inlaw hatred… its advisable you marry where you’re accepted ooo.chose your battle wisely…
@official_slimscrilla: Lol. I disagree please. When you marry a real man that loves you, if the mother inlaw or sister inlaw like make them carry their hatred for you go okija shrine. Your husband should be able to face and subdue those battle. That’s the husbands duty.
@akinflow: You don’t need family members in your marriage.
@julietokene_: While I understand the MOG’s point, the decision is not straight Jacketed. If you are om this table, then you should read this. It is true that you are not dating his mother, if you do have a future together she will most likely be involved in it. At the wedding. At holidays. At the children’s birthdays. Etc There are many reasons mums are uncomfortable with their son’s choice; he has made many bad dating choices in the past – he is the main breadwinner of the extended family and an ‘uncontrollable’ daughter-in-law will be a disaster for them she has stereotypes on the kind of woman she desires for her son (in terms of race, tribe, religious & cultural affiliation, etc) – if she doesn’t just like youI. If his mum truly dislikes you and is unwilling to reconcile at some point, you are in for a lifetime of uncomfortable, stressful situations. OR you put your boyfriend/future husband in a situation where he has to confront and/or completely separate himself and his family from his mother. And maybe that’s appropriate. Maybe she’s a terrible person. But probably not. I’m going to tell you that you have enough value as a human being, regardless of your strength or intelligence, that you don’t deserve that shit. You deserve to marry a man whose family loves you and brings you in with no reservations. I will advise that you work with a very mature person, or with an expert. They will look at the entire issue and advice you without bias, pls don’t only depend on your friends and family to make this important decision.bI was lucky enough to marry into such a family. And while we have had some disagreements, there is no doubt that I am as good as their son. In short, I can’t say whether or not you should give up on your boyfriend. But you should consider what you want in your future and be willing to make a firm decision in order to get the best out of life. Goodluck.
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