Nollywood actress, Uche Elendu recently shared a post on her Instagram page in which she warned men not to take any good woman they have in their lives for granted.
According to her, when a man decides to leave a woman who loves him genuinely despite his flaws to look for someone better, he may not be very lucky. Uche Elendu also made it known that women make huge sacrifices for their relationships to work. But when and if they discover that they are the only one putting in all the hard work needed, they leave the relationship with hurt feelings.
“Good women are scarce. When you get one, don’t mess with her or go out thinking you will find someone better. You just may not be that lucky. Appreciate your woman. Not all women are materialistic; most of them just want a man who is loyal, caring, loving and understanding. Any other thing is a plus if you’re privileged to have it.
A lot of women make huge sacrifices just to protect their marriages or relationships, the tears, the battles both emotional, physical, spiritual battles they fight, the pain, financial input, betrayal and the disappointments, and yet, they don’t give up easily till it dawns on them that they’ve actually been in a relationship with themselves. It hurts, and at the end of the day when it packs up, they blame it on the woman. Karma is a bitch and she’s a woman so she favors women. BE WARNED!
Pls MEN, take time to appreciate that good woman in your life today. You don’t have to do much, just reassure her of her position in your life and prove it to her, make sure you lit up her face with a smile, make her body feel your warmth and her ears hear your heart beat, you never value what you have till it’s gone, Don’t wait till another man harnesses the treasure you were too blind to see before you receive sense. To all the women out there working hard to save their marriages and relationships, praying and wetting their pillows nightly, God is not asleep, you are not alone in this, you are a pillar that cannot be shaken. Stay strong, stay focused, do your best and leave the rest, live your life and protect your heart. Don’t be in a hurry to come out of your marriage, it’s lonely out there and full of deceit, but if it’s a threat to your life, run run run for your dear life, cos with your life you can start a home, but in a casket, your home is your END.
