Nollywood actress and singer Tonto Dikeh popularly miss poko by her fans recently dished out some relationship tips on her instagram page.
#When you are around people who challenge your thoughts and who you are ,remain calm and maintain your light.You don’t have to dip out on the people you are supposed to care about because you are told you deserve better.People have “off days”. Everyone acts and responds differently .If we dip out every time someone hurts us,or doesn’t behave the way we ideally want in our heads,well then we’d all be alone.Everyone has their Own problems and demons .Some will test your patient more than others but that doesn’t mean to give up on them .They need help .They need to be shown LOVE feel free to distance yourself when you have to so that you don’t get drained .Manage self -control enough to not let yourself become a victim ,but don’t forget to be a source of happiness for whoever you’re around ,no matter how they act toward you .Not everyone is going to think and operate the way you do.Your morals might not match theirs ,but that does not make them a bad person ,or you any better .Don’t dampen who you are due to the people you’re around. Keep shining regardless if they understand it or not ,because in the end light will always glow through darkness .#happy#innerpeace #blessings #bigthings #greatful#Geminilove #growth
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