Nollywood actress, Blessing Jessica Obasi has opened up on the stigma surrounding late marriage.
Blessing who married her younger colleague, Stan Nze shared that it wasn’t merely a decision but a path of self-discovery, resilience, and liberation from societal expectations that aimed to control her happiness.
She described how marital pressure and stigma felt like unwelcome shadows, whispering doubts and casting long, lonely nights. Yet, in those moments of solitude, she discovered strength and realized that love isn’t a competition, nor is marriage a trophy for early success.
Blessing further emphasized how society often links a woman’s value to her marital status. She encouraged her fans to take their time, follow their own journey, and embrace it fully.
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“You know, I had to jump on this conversation because, after several years of feeling like an outsider in a world that often equates a woman’s worth with her marital status, I’ve finally stepped into a chapter that I crafted on my own terms.
“Getting married at an older age wasn’t just a choice; it was a journey of self-discovery, resilience, and breaking free from societal norms that tried to dictate my happiness.
“The pressure and stigma were like unwelcome shadows, whispering doubts and casting long, lonely nights. But in those moments of solitude, I found strength. I learned that love isn’t a race, nor is marriage a trophy for early achievement. It’s about finding someone who understands the chapters of your past and wants to write the future ones with you.
“So here I am, not a bride of youthful naivety, but a woman adorned in the wisdom of her years, ready to embark on a shared journey of love, respect, and partnership. And to those still walking their path, remember: your life, your pace, your story. Embrace it.”
Blessing tied the knot with her husband, Stan Nze on 20th October 2021 in a star studded wedding. They are blessed with a son.
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