Life coach and writer, Solomon Buchi has weigh in on the drama trending on social media involving self-acclaimed relationship expert, Blessing Okoro better known as Blessing CEO and celebrity, auto dealer Ikechukwu Darry Ogbonna better known as IVD.
Glamsquad reported that Bimbo Martins, the with of IVD passed away on Saturday, 15 October after she set their house ablaze following series of domestic violence.
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Her elder sister, Mama Jazz took to social media to announce her demise. She also called out IVD for killing Bimbo.
She wrote:
“My hands are shaking Bimbo is gone. Bimbo is gone- My sister is gone. The fire is burning me Haaaaaaa. IVD you killed my only sister. Abimbola IVD killed my sister, IVD killed my sister, IVD killed my sister”.
Blessing CEO took to her now deactivated Instagram page to meddle into the issue of domestic violence while trying to vindicate IVD.
She talked about how the deceased’s family are fighting for IVD’s wealth.According to her, the family of late Bimbo is after IVD’s properties and life, especially her elder sister, Mama Jazz.
Blessing also stated that the late Bimbo was the violent person and suicidal victim.
“The family of late Bimbo is after IVDs properties and life. Especially her elder sister mamajazz. Bimbo and IVD are well known people in Lagos and it’s not a hidden fact that even in their estate that Bimbo is violent. Everybody knows how she breaks bottle on her husband’s head on a daily…. bimbo killed herself and has always wanted to kill herself right from childhood. Evidence loading”.
Weighing in on the matter, Solomon Buchi noted that Blessing CEO is going beyond her radar as she is not in the position to justify anyone.
He is also not a relationship expert nor therapist.
He wrote:
“Blessing CEO is making mockery of what it means to be a therapist. She’s taking the role of a lawyer. In her words: “I’m stepping into this case as the official relationship therapist of IVD.” Stepping into what? I pray she doesn’t get into trouble. Seems like she misses jail.
“She’s not a therapist and she’s not abiding to any of psychotherapy, counseling or coaching. If you’ve ever had professional therapethicsy, you’ll know that she is self-styled and badly so. Therapy isn’t having a relationship page where you post people’s issues. No.
“In sane climes, she would definitely be shut off by regulatory bodies. We don’t have any sense of regulation with therapy in Nigeria. IVD doesn’t even know his right. She shouldn’t be defending him. Gosh. It makes it even more suspicious. Get a lawyer!
“I don’t know what happened between Bimbo and IVD. It seemed like a marriage with mutually toxic partners, however, social media is not court of law. The case is dicey, because she’s dead. Blessing should tread carefully. The law is not emotional.
“This is a whole case of alleged killing as a result of domestic violence. It’s not some civil case. These cases can be complex. Blessing CEO doesn’t have friends? Hmm! Even her grandmother, Kemi, would do a bit better. Even if she has evidence, she can ruin the case. Advise her.
